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Becoming One

– Moving Your Marriage from Performance to Faith – Don and Sally Meredith   (New CFLM Africa version)

Whether you are starting your amazing journey toward oneness in marriage, or running on fumes wondering if divorce is the way forward, trusting God and His promises for the success of your marriage is exceedingly worthwhile.  Learning to live and love through the lens of faith will give you a new perspective for your marriage.

Build a thriving marriage relationship with Becoming One …. A 12-week Bible study which is grounded in Scripture with biblical principles that are timeless, effective and have transformed thousands of marriages.

Your investment in 12 weeks of Becoming One will charge your marriage forever, and as a pre-marital study will prepare you for the amazing journey God has planned for your in marriage.

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Becoming One Leader’s Guide

A firm foundation is the most important part of any building.  This is especially true for building our House of Marital Oneness.  Jesus talked about this when he tells the story of the man who built his house on the sand and the one who built his house on the rock. Jesus says:

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.  And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.” 

Matthew 7:24, 25

This Becoming One Leader’s Guide will equip you to help other married couples build their marriages on the firm foundation of God’s Word.

The Becoming One Reader

The Becoming One Readings book

This book is a work full of information and good insights. The material is extracted from the Becoming One bible study guide by Don and Sally Meredith and intended for easy reading with applications at the back of the book.


It is a great resource not only for married couples that have been through the study material, but also for those who do not have the time to go through the 12 week course facilitated by experienced Marriage Disciplers.

Rethinking Guy/Girl Relationships

– M.R.T. Chindongo

Dating, courtship and marriage largely remain an area that for many people have more questions than answers.  Navigating through these waters has never been easy for any generation.  In spite of the confusion, God has never been silent with the Bible adequately addressing these matters both for our joy and to His glory. This is more than a book about dating and courtship.  The author seeks to help readers deepen their understanding on biblical manhood and womanhood and how all these find their meaning in the gospel of Jesus Christ. 

This book answers 13 hard/difficult dating and courtship questions.  Although this book is essential for all young people, it is especially relevant to young Africans since it is written by an African man who has asked himself these questions:

  • How do I know that I am ready to be in a relationship?
  • How do I know that this is the right person for me?
  • How should a young man approach a young woman for a relationship?
  • Is there a place for my parents/guardians or spiritual leaders in my love life?
  • How do we lay a strong foundation for a good courtship and a happy marriage?
  • What should I seek to know about him/her during our relationship?
  • Sexual purity: How far is too far?
  • How long should we court before we are married?
  • What does it mean to commit?
  • Does race, economic status, social status and culture matter?
  • What if I discover that the person I am dating is not a Christian?
  • How should we deal with sexual pressure during our relationship?
  • What about dreams/prophecy in finding a spouse?

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